Just invite her out to a friendly 18 hole round with your two buddies: Bucket and Mike O. That should take care of everything. BTW, don't mention "the finger thing" in front of Bucket when there is mixed company.
Great, thanks Drew.
I dont have a photo of Mike O. but Im going to show her this picture of Bucket.....if this doesnt put her off golf nothing will.
Gonna show it to her right after I finish making this guacamole dip for tonights Mexican themed mixed two ball, nine hole group. Gotta run.........